Begin gradually. Tomorrow morning when you wake up, or if you wake up in the middle of the night, take some time to reflect on what you've just experienced. Don't wait until after you've gotten up, picked up the newspaper, and poured your first cup of coffee...reflect while you are still laying in bed and your eyes are still closed. What do you remember? Think hard about anything that you may have seen or experienced while you were asleep. If it is practical, start keeping a dream journal. Write things down as soon as you awaken. Again if it is practical, write them down as soon as you wake up in the middle of the night, too.
What types of things should you write in this journal? You don't need to write a book each morning, but you should try to include the settings of the dreams, who was in each of them, and any main plots to the dream. If any particular objects or incidents stood out, include them. At the simplest level, each night may consist of just a list of participants and the location of each dream (be sure to separate information for each dream or dream sequence as best you can so you can spot any relationships)
Night of: | ______________________ |
Dream number: | ______________________ |
Participants: | ______________________ |
Place: | ______________________ |
The next step is to begin to analyze the dream. I don't mean digging into Freudian interpretations of this or that, I mean why did you have that dream? You'll find that it isn't so much the dream as a whole but rather one aspect of it that you can identify and explain. Think of the events of the previous day. Did any of them show up in your dreams that night? I believe that some of the purpose of sleep is for your brain to organize your thoughts and memories of the previous day and to store them in a more permanent location than where they've been floating for the last few hours. This is why an element in a dream may be very recent yet be associated from something from far in the past. The dreams are many times simply bits of memories that are being accessed as your brain finds the best place to store recent information or memories. The mind, being the wondrous thing that it is, takes these bits and pieces and organizes them into a sequence of events and before you know it, you're experiencing a dream.
This simplistic approach to dream meaning does not at all diminish the potential for greater understanding of your self. And you can find that, by understanding them, you can recognize them while you are having them, leading to a rather amazing experience...Lucid Dreaming